Patrick Dempsey & Jillian Fink

The other half of the “Mer-Der” love pair, Patrick Dempsey, sure is one of the most gorgeous-looking guys out there. What might break people’s hearts is that the actor is married. Jillian Fink and Dempsey tied the knot in 1999, and they are still going strong today. The twosome has now been married for over two decades.

Fink used to be Dempsey’s hairdresser, but the two fell in love and eventually found themselves in front of the altar. While it might seem that their marriage is perfect, it really is not. Scrolling through their Instagram pages reveals various professions of love, but the two actually almost called their lawyers in 2015. They then realized it was not worth it and still cared deeply about each other. Loving one another and staying true to their vows in 1999 made them stronger.